I hadn’t seen my Grandma in over more than two years and we had so much to catch up on.

My kid appreciated her immediately and she curled up in Grandma’s lap.

Both of us sat there talking about what had gone on over the last more than two years and after that I talked to her about the oil furnace. She said it had broken about a month ago and she couldn’t afford to have the oil furnace fixed. I apologized for not coming to visit her and she said she understood. She knew that sporadically life got in the way of life and she was not a priority. I began to cry when I heard she didn’t guess of herself as a priority. She had constantly come first in my life and I couldn’t figure out why that had changed. Both of us talked about life in general as soon as I made the all important call. I called my partner and asked him to call our Heating and A/C supplier and to get a oil furnace here as soon as possible. My partner came along with our friend, who owns the Heating and A/C supplier. He had several strange models in his van and all Grandma had to do was choose a oil furnace. One of the furnaces he had on the van was ductless mini split Heating and A/C system. I had to smile because I knew that Grandma would love that. There wasn’t any fuel to worry about and nothing to clean. All she had to do was use the remote control and she would have perfect heating or a/c.